BDSM MASSAGE New York

What is BDSM?

BDSM stands for Bondage and Discipline, Sadism and Masochism. BDSM ranges from light to heavy bondage. It also incorporates degrading, yet erotic, role play during sex. Understandably, all human beings have unique tastes that make them different. This also applies to sexual preferences, whereby some find pleasure in physical pain and moral degradation.

Can you mix BDSM and massage?

BDSM mixes well with massage and when combined it is referred to as a BDSM Massage or Bondassage. It brings pleasure and pain (mental or physical) and  is customized to the client’s preferences. Some clients like to split the session into part BDSM and part Massage, while others like to mix them together at the same time.

What are the three main types of BDSM?

Bondage –

A light version of bondage involves partners tying up each other’s limbs using simple things like belts. You can take it a notch higher by getting handcuffs.

Beyond binding limbs, hardcore BDSM practitioners also get erotic stimulation from binding genitalia.

Discipline –

Discipline invokes the aspect of inflicting pain as punishment. Done within the confines of a sexually charged atmosphere, it makes the experience extremely erotic for both partners.

Either of the partners places psychological restraint on the other, using physical (like spanking, electro-stimulation, candle wax) or psychological (degrading words) punishment to enforce the rules for behavior.

Sadism and Masochism –

Sadism (deriving sexual pleasure from inflicting pain or humiliation on someone else) and masochism (deriving sexual pleasure from your own pain or humiliation) are the underlying concepts that make BDSM an erotic practice, rather than being mere torture or physical abuse.

There is no reason why ideas from bdsm can be introduced into a massage to create a fusion style. When done right it’s sure to ignite that erotic spark in your relationship.